Relationship Coaching: 4 Big Mistakes Smart Women Never Make With Men
Hello, welcome to my blog, the ultimate destination for discovering the secrets to becoming an amazing high-value woman in relationships. I’m Greta Bereisaite, your personal dating and relationship coach, and today, we’re delving deep into the 4 things high-value women steer clear of when it comes to navigating the world of men. Before we jump into the 4 things high-value women never do with men.
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Number one: high-value women never chase after a man. Pursuing goes beyond simply refraining from sending the first text. It’s about striking the right balance between masculine and feminine energies to spark attraction. By letting the man take the lead, you honor his masculinity and create that magnetic chemistry. Allowing him to initiate shows his intentions and interest. Shows how much he is into you. Remember, a man genuinely invested will make the effort to connect and spend time with you.
Moving on to number two: high-value women don’t behave insecurely. Here are the common insecure questions that women ask and the reasons why it turns men off:
“Do you find her attractive?”: Asking this question suggests jealousy and insecurity. Also you are showing him that you see this other woman as a competition. The danger of this question or any insecure questions usually is that instead of a man giving you validation. He plays on it and teases you more. By replying yes she’s beautiful ( even if she is not)… So instead of giving you validation he actually makes you more insecure…( if you would like to know how men teas women check out my video in the description box bellow)
“Why are you with me?”: This question may indicate a lack of self-confidence and could make the man feel like he needs to constantly validate his choice to be with you.
“Are you going to leave me?”: It shows that you don’t trust him and that you feel insecure about the relationship. Also there is no reason to ask this question from a man. As if he is going to leave you or not usually reflects in his actions towards you and not what he says.
“Why didn’t you text me back right away?”: This question may indicate an underlying need for constant attention and might make him feel suffocated.
3. high-value women avoid living in a fantasy and putting men on pedestals. And here is why. First people are not perfect and idolizing someone will always lead to disappointment. On top of that when you idolize a man you start to devalue yourself as you feel that he is too good for you. Which then makes you behave in a worship type of way. You start to continuously go out of your way to please him. You create a codependent relationship where your happiness and self-worth becomes overly tied to their actions and opinions of you. You make your life all about him and his needs, to the point that eventually you lose yourself as a person and give him a full charge of you. And as a result he loses attraction for you.
4. High value women do not behave needy: Excessive neediness can make a partner feel suffocated, like they don’t have personal space or freedom. Constantly seeking attention, reassurance, or validation can be emotionally draining for the other person. Over time, this can lead to frustration and exhaustion. When someone relies heavily on their partner for validation, it shows that they don’t feel secure in their own decisions. That they don’t trust themselves or value themselves as much. Putting responsibility on the other person meeting all the emotional needs will create pressure, stress and feel overwhelming. Excessive neediness also suggests lack of trust in the relationship. By constantly seeking reassurance you are implying that you are very insecure in this relationship and that you don’t trust him.
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