not interested and you don’t even realise it

Henot interested and you don’t even realise it

He’s not interested and you don’t even realise it.

A lot of women come to me with similar questions, it seems like we’re all living through the same relationship and dating issues and don’t even know it. In today’s day and age is very important that we recognise those men that are actually interested in us and only spent our precious time getting to know them rather than entertaining men who are not interested in us for whatever reason.

A man not having a high level of interest in you can be apparent in various stages all the way from dating through to relationships and often times you have to be an objective outside person to be able to recognise when this is the case. As dating coaches we see and hear at all so trust me when I say I know when he’s just not that into you. women make the mistake of thinking that men speak with their words. No you hear their words but what you really need to be looking at is their actions. Men speak with their actions much louder than they speak with their words.

So the guy who has been seeing you once a week on and off sometimes he cancels, he’s flaky and it’s been going on like this for a few months (he has sex with you it takes you out on a date every now and then sometimes you are staying at home and not going anywhere) the relationship is not progressing even if he’s maybe given you the girlfriend title, guess what he’s not that interested in you. A man who’s actually genuinely interested in you is going to want to move things forward at a really quick pace. he should be introducing you to his friends his family and talking about future plans if he’s not doing any of that guess what you’re not the one. You’re just misses right now not Mrs forever.

Well you’re probably thinking if he’s taking me out on dates he’s telling me he loves me and cares about me then he must really like me right? no not necessarily. a man who is really into you want to spend as much time as possible with you he wants to move the relationship forward so no other man can have you. All men understand the importance of marriage which is why a lot of them run away from it because it’s such a high level of commitment. so if he’s not pushing things towards marriage or at least trying to get you in a situation where you’re spending a lot of time together and being a proper couple then guess what he’s just not that into you. if you’re in a relationship and you have been for eight years or even five years and there’s no ring on your finger guess what he’s just not that into you and you’re just misses right now not Mrs forever.

Men like this always have an eye on the outside and are always looking for a replacement (why cheating happens), they basically settled for you because they feel like you’re the best they can do right now but they will always keep their eye open for your replacement. a lot of women have not experienced genuine love or genuine good treatment from a man so a lot of you don’t know what you’re looking for so you will accept the bare minimum. and when I’m talking about the band minimum I’m talking about lazy dates, taking you out once a week and not moving the relationship forward after two to three months, not making you his wife after a few months to a year…all of this is bare minimum that you’re taking from him and you’re thinking that you’ve hit the jackpot. the same guy who’s giving you this bare minimum will give another woman marriage within six months of knowing her maybe even less because he knows he’s met the woman of his dreams.

It’s up to us as women to be able to gauge when a man is interested in us or not so we’re not wasting our time with someone who’s got half of his foot in the door and half of his foot out of the door. a lot of women even end up having babies with men like this and it still doesn’t mean that he’s in love with you. why do you think men will date one woman for eight years and then marry another one in six months? because she was the one and the previous woman was just a bench warm. no woman wants to be a benchwarmer but people are going to treat you how you let them treat you so stop acting like a benchwarmer. yes it’s fine for him to court you, for you to both get to know each other, from him to take you on outside dates, for you to see what he is like as a man and whether you want him to be your future husband, but if after six months you are still in the same situation and he is not introducing you to family and friends he’s not talking about the future and marriage then you need to bounce, because guess what you are not the one you are just misses right now you are convenient to him he’s getting his attention, companionship and his sex and that’s literally all he wants from you, stop making it easy for these men.

If you are still confused about whether he likes you or not then ask one of the coaches and we will be happy to help you, but please come with an open mind because you may not get the answer that you want to hear but you will get the answer that you need to hear. Time is precious ladies remember don’t waste it on men who are not that interested in you.

Sunsu Bee / January 28th, 2023 / Uncategorized

Dear Greta, I am so happy to inform you that I'm engaged. The credit for this beautiful moment goes to Greta Bereisaite "Our Coach" and the HV Facebook group moderators. I would like to share my story from being a complete doormat to a woman whom her boyfriend now respects absolutely. We have been dating for 2 years and he was the one who was chasing and pursuing me initially. It all faded gradually. His texts and calls diminished; even a time came when he started avoiding my calls and texts. I became scared of losing him and chased him horribly. There was an ex involved, with whom he used to chat and talk on the phone. I got so insecure that I started stalking both of them, and I also asked him to either choose me or her. He replied that he is not yet sure with whom he would like to stay and I still clung to him. I agreed with him that he can take time to choose between the too. Omg! I was such a low value woman at that time.

A day came when his bad behavior reached a point where he told me that I can leave this relationship if I want because I kept on nagging, remaining threatened by his EX. I had invested a lot of emotions and time. My behavior was totally doormatty, so I had no courage to leave him. Finally, he insulted me to an extreme level due to my behavior and I naturally had to stop contacting him to save whatever was left of my self-respect. I stepped back naturally and went into No Contact with him. I wasn't aware of terms like leaning back, no contact, games, pullaway, etc.

I went into a depression and tried finding a solution to my problem on YouTube, and there I found Greta's videos. I watched them all and during this time Greta used to answer free questions on her Whatsapp. She made a video on my situation, here is the link I joined her High Value Women Facebook Group which she started and some of the moderators, along with women like us were the initial members. I started writing on the Facebook wall about my issues and I was given advice by some of the women to move on and find another guy who would value me more than him. Some even called my guy a "narcissist!" The story changed in 2 days from there, when I asked Greta on her Facebook live about my issue and she said that I am behaving like a complete doormat. The same man who is treating me like his servant would treat me better if I changed my behavior, but she said that the chances of saving my relationship were very small because I had made HUGE mistakes. Still, she would try to turn it all around. I kept on posting on the wall and then came the angels who helped me. The HVW group moderators were my Guiding Angels. They held my hand and brought me out from the miserable condition I was in. There was a vast difference in our time zones, as we live in the different parts of the globe, but I would wait for their comment on the wall and then take a step ahead. Gradually I started to behave in a way as trained by Greta and the moderators. I was taught not to do the wrong things, and to improve on my own personal behavior. I made major changes in my thought process, my mindset, my communication skills and most importantly I remained patient, waiting for good days to come. Once again he said he was confused as to whom he would date. This time I wished him good luck in his life and said I'm happy for you and that he can have a good life ahead. Dang! He chased me like hell!
My boyfriend, who realized this slow progress in me, started wondering if I was the same woman. He started talking to me very politely and started to ask me what was it was that made me so cool and calm. My boyfriend reads Robert Greene books and he is coached too. I never knew that until I became High Value myself. He told me this, but I never told him that I have an army too.
Gradually he started respecting me so much and treating me completely differently. The Ex went out the window. He started treating me like a queen and the he calls me a queen naturally many a times in his texts. I turned my relationship around 180 degrees. It had already died before I was coached by Greta.
Some rules I always followed were:1. I TRUSTED IN GRETA'S TEACHINGS WITHOUT ANY DOUBT. I WAS ALREADY IN A MESS. 2. WHENEVER THE MODERATORS TOLD ME NOT TO DO SOMETHING, OR TO BEHAVE IN A PARTICULAR WAY, I DID THAT BLINDLY, NO IFS AND NO BUTS. 3. I STAYED IN THE PAINFUL SITUATION WITH PATIENCE, UNDERSTANDING THAT THE SAME MAN CAN TREAT ONE WOMAN LIKE A DOORMAT AND ANOTHER LIKE A TOTAL QUEEN 4. I TOOK TOTAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE WAY I WAS TREATED AND ACCEPTED MY MISTAKE. IT WAS MY PROBLEM, NOT HIS.5. NEVER DID I MISS A SINGLE LIVE OR VIDEO THAT GRETA MADE AND I TRIED TO BE THE BEST STUDENT TO HER AND MY MODERATORS .
So, ladies, before blaming a man and calling him names, look deep within yourselves. Look at the mistakes that we are making as women. Instead of leaning back into our own energy we lean forward and make a huge mess. Trying to change a man doesn't help. Improving ourselves helps. I won because of Greta's teachings and my moderators who showed me the correct path. Thanks to you all for your support and love,

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