Ssigns you’re coming across as desperate for a relationship
Sometimes you may not even realise it but you can come across as wanting a relationship too badly. There are ways that you are projecting yourself that may appear as desperate to the person you are dating, so its important that we recognise when we are so we can change it.
Women can sometimes make the mistake of projecting desperation without even realising it. Today I’m going to tell you a few times you may be doing and why it’s a good idea to change this type of behaviour.
- You are often telling others that you want to be in a relationship, you are missing your exes too much and you are struggling to be alone. Now this may come across as harsh, that’s not my purpose today, I don’t want to come across as harsh to upset anyone, I want to be honest about how certain behaviour can make us women come across as we are desperate for a man. Having said that, men want a woman who is happy on her own, she is not trying to fill a gap in her life with the presence of a man. A relationship to her should be a cherry on top of her already full and happy cake, not filling a void that she is struggling to fill in other ways. Find other things in your life that bring you happiness, of course there is nothing wrong with wanting a relationship but constantly talking about it to others can come across as you are not happy with your life and are desperate for a guy to make it better.
2. You do things to please a man because you are afraid to lose him. Often times, women will find themselves, subtly making changes to their likes and dislikes, their appearance and even their personalities. These changes don’t have to significant on their own, they can be little but become big when you put them all together. A lot of women will do this subconsciously and it’s the last thing that you should be doing as a woman. Compromising your individuality for a man so he will like you more and won’t leave you, eventually leads to much larger problems down the line where a you begin to lose your own identity. When this happens men will start to abuse and take serious advantage of women. It important to be yourself, and by that I mean the best version of yourself. Men who appreciate you will fall in love with you for this.
3. You don’t take responsibly for your actions, you want things the easy way. unfortunately some of the women we encounter are not happy when given any kind of constructive criticism which tells them what mistakes they are making. Often times these women become very defensive, they are unwilling to change even though they know that the way they are currently behaving is turning men off and they can’t get what they want from a guy long term. Be open to change, no one is perfect, we cant do the same behaviours and expect different results. Admit when you are told you made a mistake, learn from those mistakes, always strive to be the best version of yourself.
Here are some extra points I would like to add without going into details but they speak for themselves.
- You take back exes that are toxic, because you would rather be with him than alone, you put your feelings above your logic.
- You are extremely sad when you are not in a relationship
- You are dating a married man or a man in a relationship
Remember ladies, life is a journey; we need to be open to grow and change and adapt. If you are struggling in your relationships and you are the common denominator, its time to take a look at what you could be doing wrong.
Sunsu Bee / May 28th, 2022 / Uncategorized
