Ifhe’s acting distant, do this…
Today I’m going to go through the of the main reasons a man becomes distant and what you should do about it.
He has something serious happening and needs space
Men will often go into their man cave when things are getting overwhelming for them, they don’t usually want to talk about it and they will want space to figure things out on their own. It could be related to work, family or their health, but whatever is bothering them, the will withdraw into themselves to take time and solve their problems. At this time, especially if you are aware of some issues happening, (or even of you’re not) you should give him space, he will come back when he’s ready. Offer support if he needs it but don’t force him to talk and share, trust that can sort out his problems and be back when he’s feeling better.
You both had an argument
When you both have had a disagreement or you’ve done something low value, he will more than likely be turned off by you. He needs space so he get rid of this feeling, focus on other things and then when he’s feeling better about you and the situation he will be back. This space is actually in your favour, because it will make him reset his bad feelings towards you, miss you and then come back with a better feeling and attitude. When this happens the best thing you can do is to give space. If you acted low value and were the reason for the argument, you can apologise once, but then leave him to it and he’ll be back when he’s ready.
You behaved low value
If for example you behaved insecure, you became jealous or looked for too much validation from him, a man will usually back off and give you space. He will do this because his attraction for you has decreased. No one likes insecure behaviour, least of all guys who are secure. So when he sees that you are not confident in your own skin or you see other women as a threat and nag him over it and don’t trust him. It will make him back off you and be turned off. When this happy, don’t chase him, it will only make you look more insecure and put him off more. Let him be, when and if hes ready he’ll be back. Regular low value behaviour will put a man off your completely so be very careful that you are not doing this too often, better to avoid this kind of behaviour all together.
