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Thesefeminine qualities make him want you more

These feminine qualities make him want you more

Trust

This is the foundation of any relationship, however alot of women are with men that they completely trust. Alot of times this is because they have been burned in the past,in previous failed relationships or they have issues that linger from childhood. What they don’t realise is that they issues carried forward into a new relationship will damage it over time. This will damage any new relationship you start and bring no real benefit, often what ends up happening is that youre punishing the new guy for the mistakes of all the other people in your life and not because hes done anything to deserve it. When we trust a guy, It makes him feel more masculine, like he has more responsibility and is also stop us from acting crazy, controlling or needy. When you trust that that hes into you, faithful and a good person he will be more likely to behave that way. Im not saying ignore red flags, but if a guy has done nothing that warrants you not trusting him, then you absolutely should.

Modesty

Being modest is something that is considered backwards these days. We live in an age where being the loudest and proudest person in the room will get you attention, what we have forgotten is that is wont get you respect and without respect you cant have true love. Alot of social media apps are covered with women and men who want to expose as much of themselves and their lives to the world, when they are out they want attention from as many people as they can, however they don’t realises that attention is cheap and respect lasts alot longer than attention ever will. When you are with a guy and you are modest, if he is a man of high value, he will absolutely admire that in you. In fact the majority of men will, even if they say they like a women who moves fast and gives them what they want, in reality they use these women and will never be long term with someone like that (hence so many single men around). what they all respect whether they admit it or not, is modesty. The like a woman who is classy, who knows her worth, who gets respect by others and him because she is modest and doesnt need to be the centre of attention.

Asking for help

This question I get asked alot, “should I ask him for help?” the answer is, sometimes yes you can. Now im not saying have the man do favours for you every other day, because then he will feel like youre taking advantage of him, no you should ask for help once in a blue moon, just so you can remind him that hes needed, hes masculine and you appreciate him. A man who cares about you, who values you and has manners will be happy to help. A man who isnt any of those things wont. It absolutely depends on the type of guy he is and how much he cares about you but there’s nothing wrong with once in a blue moon checking in and asking for something like help moving boxes or carrying the shopping inside, so he get gets a chance to feel like your knight in shining armour. 

Sunsu Bee / January 14th, 2022 / Life Coaching