Trying your best to make your relationship work, backfires

Howcan you trust him more

Trust is the foundation of any relationship, however these days it is becoming harder and harder to find.

One of the things that we always mention to clients is that if you cannot trust the man that you are with, why are you with him to begin with?

If you cannot trust your partner, being in the relationship becomes a lot more difficult overall, you will begin to panic when you have not heard from them, you are overly anxious and it begins to take a toll on your life in other ways.

Another significant thing that happens is when you’re not trusting your partner, they will see that you don’t trust them. You will come across as insecure to them and when a man see’s you as insecure he see’s you as someone who is giving him too much reassurance and therefore someone that he can use and leave and cheat on without much worry. This is because this reassurance makes him feel like you are not going to leave him no matter what he does, because youre too scared to lose him.

So what should you do when you cannot trust him? Well you can either leave him or you can start working on your own confidence.

Being a confident woman who values herself and thinks she is the prize, lets him go out, doesn’t nag him or chase him will mean that he will give you respect because you are respecting yourself.

He will see you value only when you value yourself. He understand that you are someone who is unique, finding a confident person is rare these days, and someone who gives him space when he wants it is even rarer, so he will not want to lose you, which also means he will give you more security and therefore your trust in him will naturally increase.

Sunsu Bee / December 10th, 2021 / Life Coaching