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Whyhe is playing games

We live in the age of information. In fact we are bombarded with it all the time, whether it be adverts that are trying to make us buy things or people’s opinions on specific topics.

We basically only need to mention something once, or even think about something and we are suggested videos and articles that relate to what we were searching for.

Just like women are trying to be the best versions of themselves, men are also constantly trying to up their game and be better in life. There is nothing wrong with trying to become a better version of yourself, however the problems start when you begin to listen to toxic voices, random peoples opinions and outside noise.

No one is really immune to this, but what seems to be happening is that we have an entire generation of men who are teaching other men, both online and offline on how to pick up women, get sex, keep a rotation and keep her chasing, all whilst giving minimum effort and attention back in return.

15 to 20 years ago, we had men who were 95% “good guys”, men who were consistent, chased women, tried to impress them, had actions that matched their words, and would go above and beyond to get the woman that they wanted. Whereas the “players” were around 5%., now however the tables have completely turned, due to the information on how to play games, how to make a woman chase and give you sex with no commitment, (aka, gameplaying) the “players” have increased to around 95% and the “good guys” are at around 5%.

We are even seeing women who are dating these days, so used to these “players/bad boys” that they find the good guys boring and predictable, even though those are the type of guys that the majority of women need to be with in order to have a healthy and happy relationship, that is not full of constant anxiety.

This access to toxic information, coupled with dating apps making access to “new” people very easy and convenient, basically means that we are seeing very few relationships lasting unless the woman is able to spot the games and play the player at his own game. Therefore its vital that you learn the tactics men are using these days on women so you can manoeuvre around them and not just turn into another woman who “got played” .

Yes we will be able to spot the games men play as Greta’s coaches, and we have a seen a significant increase in them, but we can also teach you what you need to do in order to overcome them.

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Sunsu Bee / November 27th, 2021 / Life Coaching