Howto show him that you’re interested the correct way

You do not need to tell him directly that you like him! In fact I don’t recommend this because it will kill the mystery!

Don’t be the one asking him out or putting yourself on a plate for him, there are better more subtle ways to show a man that you are interested in him in a high value way.

Firstly, support his goals,  by doing this, in your actions youre showing him that you like him. For example, if he is working on a project and hes very busy, all you need to do is give a non-verbal gesture such as perhaps, leaving a cup of tea or water whilst hes working so you can show him that you are supporting him whilst he’s working hard. If he tells you he’s working, once in a blue moon, you can tell him that he’s a hard worker and he does a great job.

Just make sure you’re not doing it in a form of pleasing or pursuing him

Secondly if he has been pursuing you throughout your communication with him, he’s been the one initiating and pursuing you and, you know that he cares about you, then you can start initiating a little bit too. I know, men like to be on the edge. But in this instance, you need to show him some level of interest back or else he will probably stop coming after you.

Just bear in mind if you start initiating every now and then, he may back off and start to play power games such as not text you for a week first and expecting you to reach out again, just keep your cool and wait it out, he’ll be back. Furthermore, keep your texts, sweet, short and polite.

Now this leads me on to that importance of giving,  obviously you should give sometime, as a man doesn’t want to feel like he’s been taken advantage of. The way you give however depends on the context of your relationship. So if he is often buys you small gifts, getting him one back randomly, showing you care about him, with him still being the primary giver

Also generally speaking, by giving your time to meet him long, but making time to speak to him, and by responding to his messages, you are showing that you like him.

Lastly, don’t be so serious with him, keep your conversations light and fun. Example, if he starts the conversation in a playful way, you can play along too. Banter with, create a fun and interesting text exchange, not only will he enjoy texting with you more, you will also show him that you are interested in him

Sunsu Bee / September 19th, 2021 / Life Coaching