High Value changed my life - Greta Bereisaite

HowHigh Value changed my life

Hi ladies, it’s great to be a part of this group again. I wanted to return to share my story as Greta Bereišaitė changed my life. The self confidence I gained from working with Greta and the coaches truly helped me create a life I love. Briefly, two short years ago I had just broken up with my boyfriend (for the 5th time in 4 years). He couldn’t commit and I was at the end of my rope and didn’t realize that the reason for this was because I was a predictable doormat and did everything wrong. I was the nice girl who wore her heart on her sleeve. I loved him very much, but kept breaking up with him because he just wouldn’t commit.

During the three months I was broken up with him and following the teachings of Greta my life changed dramatically! Even though I was very low on funds-being a single mom of two girls, I scraped up enough extra money to join the Ladies VIP and Sunsu Bee and the other coaches were amazing. They coached me in new ways of dating and interacting with men that changed my life. The twice a week lives made such a difference in how I interacted not just with men, but friends and family as well. I also saw the mistakes I had made that allowed others to take me for granted. Three months after leaving my boyfriend, he came back. And yes, that whole three months was no contact! None. I used all of the tools I learned from Greta and the coaches and within 3 weeks of talking with him again-he proposed. This is a man who only spent the night at my house two times during the whole 4 years we were dating!!! He had been all about himself and his needs. Case in point-he was 45 years old, never married and every serious girlfriend he had before me, left him because he wouldn’t commit. Following this last breakup, the shift in him was dramatic and it was all because my behaviour towards him had changed. I did everything the coaches told me to do.

Even when it was uncomfortable-I couldn’t ignore the results and changes I was seeing in my high value man. I also realized that change is uncomfortable and that I needed to trust the process. Once you become a high value woman, you never want to go back. In fact, you can’t-because you no longer settle. The week after he proposed, he treated me to a trip to Hawaii for two weeks-first class all the way. He had planned the trip to propose to me, but couldn’t wait to propose-so we went on the trip one week after he proposed. When we returned from Hawaii we bought a house together where he has invested over $100k in remodelling the house. He gave me his Escalade which I didn’t even want. However, he wanted me to return my new car to the dealership because the monthly payments were so costly! The Escalade was his baby-his dream car, but he freely handed it over to me, to help us save $. He also added me to all of his bank accounts within two days of proposing, just to show me how invested he was in our relationship. I didn’t ask for any of this. He offered it freely.

The reason I bring up his financial investment in our relationship is because before being a part of this group and working with Greta, I would have refused most of the above because I’m an independent woman. But Greta taught me that when a man loves a woman he wants to spoil her and he invests in her. And ladies, what I realized is that his investment in me financially, emotionally, etc…was minimal, when I was low value. He showed me how much he was capable of investing, in every way once I showed up high value. I have wanted to share my story for so long with Greta and the other coaches to tell them, thank you. But, I also want to share it with you ladies because the BEST thing you can do is to keep coming back here. Read the advice of others, but keep in mind that they may not be as far along in their high value woman journey.

Take the advice of the moderators and coaches. The only way you will get to that next stage is to work directly with the coaches in the VIP. Also, Greta’s book on the games men play is excellent. I have it on audio and have listened to it a few times to remind myself how men work and why they push our buttons. At this point I have been happily married to my husband since September of this year. He left his job in coaching (after 22 years-a job he loved) to be a full time stepfather to my two teenage girls (girls who he spent probably a total of 1 week with during the four years we dated). And to work on flipping houses. My point is, if he can change so dramatically based on me changing my behaviour, it is possible for anybody! I have created my dream life. Not just because I’m married to the man of my dreams but because I trust myself and know that I am a high value woman. I have started my own business as a life coach and many of the valuable lessons I’ve learned from this group, finds its way into my work with others. And I know I have Greta and the other coaches to thank for this. You ladies are truly the best!!! I can’t thank you enough. Oh, and we’re headed back to Hawaii in March for our honeymoon, taking our two girls and going first class all the way! Because he’s married to a high value woman and wants to continue to impress me. Not because I asked for it, but because he knows what he has and appreciates it.

P.S. I wasn’t able to post for V-Day. But here’s a picture of the closet he build me as part of my Valentine’s Day gift.

Sunsu Bee / August 21st, 2021 / Testimonials

Dear Greta, I am so happy to inform you that I'm engaged. The credit for this beautiful moment goes to Greta Bereisaite "Our Coach" and the HV Facebook group moderators. I would like to share my story from being a complete doormat to a woman whom her boyfriend now respects absolutely. We have been dating for 2 years and he was the one who was chasing and pursuing me initially. It all faded gradually. His texts and calls diminished; even a time came when he started avoiding my calls and texts. I became scared of losing him and chased him horribly. There was an ex involved, with whom he used to chat and talk on the phone. I got so insecure that I started stalking both of them, and I also asked him to either choose me or her. He replied that he is not yet sure with whom he would like to stay and I still clung to him. I agreed with him that he can take time to choose between the too. Omg! I was such a low value woman at that time.

A day came when his bad behavior reached a point where he told me that I can leave this relationship if I want because I kept on nagging, remaining threatened by his EX. I had invested a lot of emotions and time. My behavior was totally doormatty, so I had no courage to leave him. Finally, he insulted me to an extreme level due to my behavior and I naturally had to stop contacting him to save whatever was left of my self-respect. I stepped back naturally and went into No Contact with him. I wasn't aware of terms like leaning back, no contact, games, pullaway, etc.

I went into a depression and tried finding a solution to my problem on YouTube, and there I found Greta's videos. I watched them all and during this time Greta used to answer free questions on her Whatsapp. She made a video on my situation, here is the link I joined her High Value Women Facebook Group which she started and some of the moderators, along with women like us were the initial members. I started writing on the Facebook wall about my issues and I was given advice by some of the women to move on and find another guy who would value me more than him. Some even called my guy a "narcissist!" The story changed in 2 days from there, when I asked Greta on her Facebook live about my issue and she said that I am behaving like a complete doormat. The same man who is treating me like his servant would treat me better if I changed my behavior, but she said that the chances of saving my relationship were very small because I had made HUGE mistakes. Still, she would try to turn it all around. I kept on posting on the wall and then came the angels who helped me. The HVW group moderators were my Guiding Angels. They held my hand and brought me out from the miserable condition I was in. There was a vast difference in our time zones, as we live in the different parts of the globe, but I would wait for their comment on the wall and then take a step ahead. Gradually I started to behave in a way as trained by Greta and the moderators. I was taught not to do the wrong things, and to improve on my own personal behavior. I made major changes in my thought process, my mindset, my communication skills and most importantly I remained patient, waiting for good days to come. Once again he said he was confused as to whom he would date. This time I wished him good luck in his life and said I'm happy for you and that he can have a good life ahead. Dang! He chased me like hell!
My boyfriend, who realized this slow progress in me, started wondering if I was the same woman. He started talking to me very politely and started to ask me what was it was that made me so cool and calm. My boyfriend reads Robert Greene books and he is coached too. I never knew that until I became High Value myself. He told me this, but I never told him that I have an army too.
Gradually he started respecting me so much and treating me completely differently. The Ex went out the window. He started treating me like a queen and the he calls me a queen naturally many a times in his texts. I turned my relationship around 180 degrees. It had already died before I was coached by Greta.
Some rules I always followed were:1. I TRUSTED IN GRETA'S TEACHINGS WITHOUT ANY DOUBT. I WAS ALREADY IN A MESS. 2. WHENEVER THE MODERATORS TOLD ME NOT TO DO SOMETHING, OR TO BEHAVE IN A PARTICULAR WAY, I DID THAT BLINDLY, NO IFS AND NO BUTS. 3. I STAYED IN THE PAINFUL SITUATION WITH PATIENCE, UNDERSTANDING THAT THE SAME MAN CAN TREAT ONE WOMAN LIKE A DOORMAT AND ANOTHER LIKE A TOTAL QUEEN 4. I TOOK TOTAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE WAY I WAS TREATED AND ACCEPTED MY MISTAKE. IT WAS MY PROBLEM, NOT HIS.5. NEVER DID I MISS A SINGLE LIVE OR VIDEO THAT GRETA MADE AND I TRIED TO BE THE BEST STUDENT TO HER AND MY MODERATORS .
So, ladies, before blaming a man and calling him names, look deep within yourselves. Look at the mistakes that we are making as women. Instead of leaning back into our own energy we lean forward and make a huge mess. Trying to change a man doesn't help. Improving ourselves helps. I won because of Greta's teachings and my moderators who showed me the correct path. Thanks to you all for your support and love,

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