Cana beautiful woman steal my man?
Women often share with me that they are worried about their partners because they sometimes look at other women whilst in public settings (I’m talking about glancing, not straight up staring for ages) or that they look at women’s pictures online on Instagram and follow them, sometimes even commenting on their pictures.
As a result of this it makes a lot of women inscure and emotional. What I tell these women is that MEN DON’T FALL IN LOVE WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN. Read that again. This will usually surprise a lot of you as you have been told by media, society and family even that the prettier you are the more you spend on beautifying yourself the more likely you are to be successful ,happy, attract and keep quality men, when in fact this is absolutely not the case.
Men fall in love with high value women. Women who are confident, who match their personalities and that yes, they find attractive. But beauty will only get a womans foot in the door, it will NEVER be the thing that keeps a man around long term.
Initially when a man see’s a woman he finds attractive, the number one thing that he is thinking about is that “she hot”. He’s not having thoughts about a future with her, he’s not imagining kids with her, he is just going based off pure animalistic desire and lust. So do looks attract a man to you? Absolutely looks will definitely attract a man to you, HOWEVER, its good old fashioned personality and high value attitude that will make him put a ring on it
The same way that a guy can fall for a girl that is not his physical type, he can also be turned off by a girl that is his physical type. If she is someone who is hot but, chases him, is needy and naggy, she lacks emotional control and is a drag to hang out the lust fades real quick. A guy may want to sleep with a woman like this and keep her hanging around for this purpose but he will not go long term with this woman.
This is why focusing on appearances although important, shouldn’t be what you are working hard on. Work on your personality, confidence and self-worth, this is what will keep a man coming back for more and keep him around in the long run.
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