I got my husband to come to me

He asked me to be his girlfriend after one month, should I agree?

HowI got my husband to come to me

The story I’m about to share with you today is very important, because I want you to be aware that becoming a truly high value woman is very hard work. It takes a lot of dedication towards personal development, it is not a game and things do not change overnight.

Jenifer was married and when she met her husband she was very high value

Her husband was a strong cheeky alpha male who had fallen for high value Jenifer and they got married within 2 years. After they were married Jenifer started giving more, she started accommodating herself to hr husband and she started going out of her way to please him. As a result of this new low value behaviour, her husband obviously started to take her for granted… no nights out, sleeping in different bedrooms, picking on her, saying he didn’t want kids anymore, began manipulating her and so on.

Now you’re probably wondering what happened? She was giving him everything he wanted so why were things becoming worse and the relationship disintegrating? The answer is because Jenifer had changed, not for the better but for the worse.

When she met her husband, she was a challenge she had her dreams she had her boundaries, they were complimenting each other, she was fulfilling his love needs of uncertainty, letting him pursue, letting him take the lead and charm and impress her, after marriage however she forgot about herself she made him into her whole world, she started to pursue him, impress him, become needy and emotional and as a result he got bored started to take her for granted. Why? Because she became low value this is not what he signed up for.

Jenifer however was proactive, at this point she reached out me and told me her whole story and we promptly started coaching. We focused on self-love, goals dreams, her ambitions, on her self-worth and personal development. We focused on the principle that when we die God is not going to ask us which husband we married, God will ask instead, what have you done with the life that I gave you?

We focused on setting healthy boundaries and in particular, not giving to him when he Is not appreciating what you are giving.

What happened first as a result of her high value switch is he started throwing tantrums. He became rebellious. I mean he had her at his feet he was playing her as a Muppet and now suddenly the table had turned and he couldn’t do that anymore so he would do whatever it took to try and bring her back to being low value again.

You know how kids walk all over their mums and then when mum finally starts to set a boundaries… the child starts to roll on the floor and cause a scene because he can’t get his way anymore. This is the equivalent of what her husband was doing.

After about 8 months of working on herself and being high value, he gets so angry that he asks her for divorce. The new high value version of Jenifer doesn’t cry, or try to please him or beg him back, instead she says ok to his suggestion and uses one of the most powerful tools in the high value woman arsenal, complete emotional control.

Then he finally breaks down, he realises he can’t win by threatening her or walking away and he tries to fix things and for about 1 month he is on his best behaviour, that is until he tries again to make her low value and starts a cold war, a couple months of the silent treatment.

As a result of his new tactics and increasingly unbearable behaviour Jenifer decides she has had enough and she asks for a separation and he says ok…he agrees.

Jenifer packs up her things and decides to move out and starts living her ultimate life. She starts going after and achieving her dreams, having fun with friends, begins experiencing the pursuit of many guys. As now she’s high value she’s getting proper queen’s treatment from men around her. After nearly 8 months you’ll never guess who is back pursuing her again. Yes that’s right, her husband! Why? Because he realised that he couldn’t find anyone who was on her level or was even remotely similar to her and that he lost an amazing Queen. As a result of this now he wants to stay married to her and is full on pursuing her, he is proving to her with a every single action, how much he loves and cares about her and he even wants to have a baby again!

Jennifer says she is learning to love herself, learning how to set healthy boundaries and knowing how to behave with men. She is thrilled to be experiencing such s high value treatment from all the guys in her life, even if he just the mailman who delivers the post!

So ladies the lesson is when you are high value he will fall for you, but you must stay high value and go after what sets your soul on fire in life with a man as afterthought, this is when he will put you first and treat you like a Queen. But the most important thing is, when you bring out the best in a guy you need to decide is his best is good enough for you!

Sunsu Bee / May 22nd, 2021 / Life Coaching
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Dear Greta, I am so happy to inform you that I'm engaged. The credit for this beautiful moment goes to Greta Bereisaite "Our Coach" and the HV Facebook group moderators. I would like to share my story from being a complete doormat to a woman whom her boyfriend now respects absolutely. We have been dating for 2 years and he was the one who was chasing and pursuing me initially. It all faded gradually. His texts and calls diminished; even a time came when he started avoiding my calls and texts. I became scared of losing him and chased him horribly. There was an ex involved, with whom he used to chat and talk on the phone. I got so insecure that I started stalking both of them, and I also asked him to either choose me or her. He replied that he is not yet sure with whom he would like to stay and I still clung to him. I agreed with him that he can take time to choose between the too. Omg! I was such a low value woman at that time.

A day came when his bad behavior reached a point where he told me that I can leave this relationship if I want because I kept on nagging, remaining threatened by his EX. I had invested a lot of emotions and time. My behavior was totally doormatty, so I had no courage to leave him. Finally, he insulted me to an extreme level due to my behavior and I naturally had to stop contacting him to save whatever was left of my self-respect. I stepped back naturally and went into No Contact with him. I wasn't aware of terms like leaning back, no contact, games, pullaway, etc.

I went into a depression and tried finding a solution to my problem on YouTube, and there I found Greta's videos. I watched them all and during this time Greta used to answer free questions on her Whatsapp. She made a video on my situation, here is the link I joined her High Value Women Facebook Group which she started and some of the moderators, along with women like us were the initial members. I started writing on the Facebook wall about my issues and I was given advice by some of the women to move on and find another guy who would value me more than him. Some even called my guy a "narcissist!" The story changed in 2 days from there, when I asked Greta on her Facebook live about my issue and she said that I am behaving like a complete doormat. The same man who is treating me like his servant would treat me better if I changed my behavior, but she said that the chances of saving my relationship were very small because I had made HUGE mistakes. Still, she would try to turn it all around. I kept on posting on the wall and then came the angels who helped me. The HVW group moderators were my Guiding Angels. They held my hand and brought me out from the miserable condition I was in. There was a vast difference in our time zones, as we live in the different parts of the globe, but I would wait for their comment on the wall and then take a step ahead. Gradually I started to behave in a way as trained by Greta and the moderators. I was taught not to do the wrong things, and to improve on my own personal behavior. I made major changes in my thought process, my mindset, my communication skills and most importantly I remained patient, waiting for good days to come. Once again he said he was confused as to whom he would date. This time I wished him good luck in his life and said I'm happy for you and that he can have a good life ahead. Dang! He chased me like hell!
My boyfriend, who realized this slow progress in me, started wondering if I was the same woman. He started talking to me very politely and started to ask me what was it was that made me so cool and calm. My boyfriend reads Robert Greene books and he is coached too. I never knew that until I became High Value myself. He told me this, but I never told him that I have an army too.
Gradually he started respecting me so much and treating me completely differently. The Ex went out the window. He started treating me like a queen and the he calls me a queen naturally many a times in his texts. I turned my relationship around 180 degrees. It had already died before I was coached by Greta.
Some rules I always followed were:1. I TRUSTED IN GRETA'S TEACHINGS WITHOUT ANY DOUBT. I WAS ALREADY IN A MESS. 2. WHENEVER THE MODERATORS TOLD ME NOT TO DO SOMETHING, OR TO BEHAVE IN A PARTICULAR WAY, I DID THAT BLINDLY, NO IFS AND NO BUTS. 3. I STAYED IN THE PAINFUL SITUATION WITH PATIENCE, UNDERSTANDING THAT THE SAME MAN CAN TREAT ONE WOMAN LIKE A DOORMAT AND ANOTHER LIKE A TOTAL QUEEN 4. I TOOK TOTAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE WAY I WAS TREATED AND ACCEPTED MY MISTAKE. IT WAS MY PROBLEM, NOT HIS.5. NEVER DID I MISS A SINGLE LIVE OR VIDEO THAT GRETA MADE AND I TRIED TO BE THE BEST STUDENT TO HER AND MY MODERATORS .
So, ladies, before blaming a man and calling him names, look deep within yourselves. Look at the mistakes that we are making as women. Instead of leaning back into our own energy we lean forward and make a huge mess. Trying to change a man doesn't help. Improving ourselves helps. I won because of Greta's teachings and my moderators who showed me the correct path. Thanks to you all for your support and love,

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