ShouldShould I flirt with him?
I often get girls asking me, how can i flirt with him, how can i show him i’m attracted to him and that i like him? the way that “modern” society has taught women to act to get a man’s love is massively detrimental to to relationships and their dynamics overall.
we are told that we need to show a man that we like him, by playing with our hair, giving him bedroom eyes, telling him our best jokes and trying our best to impress him. what we aren’t told is that when we do these things, men take it as we are desperate, madly in love with him and that we are easy.
He will then either be put off you or he will take you as someone he can throw into the friends with benefits piles and add to his roster and rotation.
I’m sure you’ve seen it. You’re at a bar or a restaurant; there is a group of men and women seated not far from you. You look over and see that the men are behaving as anyone would when out in a social setting, smiling, being polite and modest. Whereas the women who are with them, are completely in their face, over the top, trying their best to seduce these guys, laughing loudly at their jokes and initiating body contact. What you probably may or may not be able to also see is that the men in this situation are also thinking to themselves what on earth are these women doing?!
A situation like this would usually end in one way only, a one night stand.
Another situation that you may have even done yourself and which is seen regularly in nightclubs, is when women dance provocatively for men. Twerking maybe a trend you have seen everywhere, but I can tell you now that if a man is given a choice between a woman twerking and dancing provocatively in his face, or a woman smiling when she meets his eye contact briefly, he will choose the latter every time, unless all he is looking for is a one night stand.
If you look at nature, the male of the species is always the one who dances for the female, they are the ones who always try to impress and charm her, by bringing her presents and looking his best. We should stick to these principles and try not to alter the ways of nature when courting.
Women who flirt with men, are pretty much presenting themselves on a plate for him. You take away all your mystery, you’re no longer a challenge or someone he has to impress. He will take you if you are easy, but not call you again, unless he’s looking for another hook up and most of all he won’t respect you. A man doesn’t fall in love with a woman he doesn’t respect.
The most attractive way to behave with a man is to be yourself, enjoy the moment, not try and impress him and be friendly and polite. This is the high value way and the best way.
