Howto find true love
What if I told you, true love is a strategy? Its more than just based on feelings and emotions, you actually need to know what to do, how to do it and when to do it and this will make you successful in love.
If you want to achieve anything in life, you need to find the correct strategy for it. Our brain has a system on how it works; nature follows a system, successful business need a system to make things happen basically everything in life needs a good system and strategy to work successfully.
What happens if we want something in life but you use the incorrect strategy to get it? For example, if I want to be a millionaire but I have no idea how to do that because no one has been a millionaire in my family or the educational system is not teaching me about it I will fail in achieving my goal, unless I will find the correct strategy for how to make it happen, exactly the same is true about finding love.
Men in general are more logical and physically stronger than women, this goes back to a time when we lived outdoors and their role was to be the hunter gatherers and to provide for the family. Women on the other hand are born with stronger emotional and nurturing tendencies, they bond stronger with their children and also react more emotionally to situations than men.
Intrinsically women want to find a partner that will be strong, powerful, loyal and unlikely to run away so they can ensure the future of any children they may have, this is more biological that anything else.
Men on the other hand are more prone to sow their seeds and have sex as much as they can as often as they can. One quick internet search of how often a man thinks about sex over a woman will tell you everything you need to know.
I must say that what I am talking about in this blog is more based on the general rule and not the exceptions.
Now if the man comes up to a woman and say, “hey, will you have sex with me?” the vast majority of women will tell him to get lost, so what does he do in order to get what he wants from her? He comes up with a successful strategy. And this strategy my friends is what men all over the world called “game”.
Now women tend to believe that we need to follow our heart and get love or marriage and children by a certain age. Women also love to talk, bond quickly through it and love flattery and attention. Men realise this and use it to get what they want from a woman ie. Sex.
Just like men can use a successful strategy to get what they want form women, we can also use strategies to get what we want from men, love, attention, the ring, marriage the works. So what is this strategy you ask? It’s the High Value strategy.
It includes but is not limited to some key ingredients, a lot of tweaking and a lot of practice. The crux of this strategy is to LOVE YOURSELF, be confident and to HAVE DISCIPLINE. Without these key ingredients everything else becomes very difficult to implement and master. When you begin working on these things the next step is to learn a man’s behaviour, learn the games that he plays and know his psychology. After this you apply this knowledge, mix it with emotional control and some logic and use that on a guy that you like and hey presto you get high value magic!
High value is all about confidence, self control, boundaries and not letting other people take you for granted. When a woman starts putting these things in place as part of her overall strategy in life, then romantic relationships naturally fall into place. A man needs to know he has to work to have you, he need to invest his time and effort to win you over and court you. Its only when he does this that his oxytocin will rise and his love for you will grow leading him to be faithful and consistent with you. Emotional control, not nagging, enjoying your life are all things that are also very important as part as your high value strategy. Women often let their lives be ruled by their feelings for a man, they will make him the centre of their happiness and this is when they will also have a man run away from them.
It’s a delicate balance for sure but completely achievable; never take for granted what great strategy can do for your love life!
