Howcan I show him I’m interested in him?
Girls often are confused on what is the best way that they can show a man interest, do they flirt with him? And if so how do they do that?
You may be surprised to hear this but as a woman you don’t need to flirt with a man to show you’re interested in him in fact when you flirt with a man, you are showing him that you are super into him and even coming across as desperate, which will often turn a man off or have him put you into the friends with benefits zone.
I’m sure you’ve seen it. You’re at a bar or a restaurant; there is a group of men and women seated not far from you. You look over and see that the men are behaving as anyone would when out in a social setting, smiling, being polite and modest. Whereas the women who are with them, are completely in their face, over the top, trying their best to seduce these guys, laughing loudly at their jokes and initiating body contact. What you probably may or may not be able to also see is that the men in this situation are also thinking to themselves what on earth are these women doing?!
A situation like this would usually end in one way only, a one night stand.
So what is the best way to behave I hear you ask? Be yourself.
Now by be yourself I mean that by talking to man (responding to his advances, his messages, his calls etc if your way of showing him that you are interested. As long as you are polite there is nothing more you need to do to show interest. If you do anything more than this a man will think you really like him and therefore start taking you for granted, request last minute, call and text less often and make you chase him because he knows you like him so much you won’t leave him.
Just remember women who flirt with men, are pretty much presenting themselves on a plate for him. You take away all your mystery, you’re no longer a challenge or someone he has to impress. He will take you if you are easy, but not call you again, unless he’s looking for another hook up and most of all he won’t respect you. A man doesn’t fall in love with a woman he doesn’t respect.
Less is more. just respond and be polite, don’t be cold. This is enough for a man, anything else will be sure to lead to disrespect and subsequently, heartache.
